Updated June 2, 2025



Today's quote:
Something precious is lost if we rush headlong into the details of life without pausing for a moment to pay homage to the mystery of life and the gift of another day. |
Kent Nerburn |
Updated June 2, 2025
Something precious is lost if we rush headlong into the details of life without pausing for a moment to pay homage to the mystery of life and the gift of another day. |
Kent Nerburn |
of the lives of my ancestors for Memorial Day 2025.
The Ross family had 12 children of their own. And they also fostered my grandfather and his little sister, who were also raised by their widowed mother some of the time.
The interesting things are the relationships to my grandfather, George Elmore Rogers.
My grandfather was the son of W. Sam Rogers who was a war hero who died young, suffering from his time in Mexico fighting for Texas.
The history of John A. Elmore is interesting, so I'm just going to copy and paste it here, after reposting the original several years ago.
![]() |
Gen John Archer Elmore 1762-1834 |
Elmore county was named in honor of Gen. Elmore. He was deservedly popular for his "candor, good sense and sociability."
He was buried in the old family burying ground at the old homestead, "Huntington," in Elmore county. The following inscription is upon his tombstone:
In Memory of Gen. John Archer Elmore, who was born in Prince Edward County, Va., August the 21st, 1762, and died in Autauga County, Ala., April 24th, 1834, aged 71 yrs. 8 mos. & 3 days. He was a soldier of the Revolution in the Virginia Line and afterwards a member of the Legislature of So. Ca., and a General in the militia. He was a member of the Legislature of Alabama and filled various other offices of Honor and Trust in both States. He was an affectionate husband, a kind and indulgent father, a humane master, A devoted friend, and a patriotic citizen.
He entered the Revolutionary service, a mere lad, in Greene's command in the Virginia line; was with him in his tour through the Carolinas, and with him at the surrender at Yorktown. This is shown by the archives in Washington; O'Neal's Bench and Bar of South Carolina, vol. ii, pp. 85, 88, and Brewer's Alabama, p. 109. After the Revolution he settled in Laurens district, South Carolina, and resided there many years, during which time he was often a member of the legislature. He moved to Autauga county, Alabama, in 1819 and served one term in the house of representatives from this county.
His first wife was Miss Saxon, by whom he had two sons: Hon. Franklin H. Elmore, of South Carolina, who succeeded Mr. Calhoun in the United States senate, and Benjamin F. Elmore, treasurer of South Carolina. His second wife, Miss Ann Martin, was a member of the famous Martin family of South Carolina, and descended also from the Marshall family of Virginia, and from Lieutenant Nathaniel Terry, of Virginia. By this second marriage there were five sons and several daughters."Mrs. Mell didn't have all his children in her list, see below for more details of them.
C M Stanley article in The Alabama Journal, Sept 13, 1959:
"He removed to Alabama in 1819, the same year the state was admitted to the Union, settling in Autauga County and in 1821 served in the Alabama legislature. When Elmore County was created, largely out of Autauga County, the new county was named for General Elmore as was the town of Elmore in the new county."
From "Elmore Family -p. 17:
Gen. John A. and Betsy -- "Reuben Jourdan came to Alabama about 1812 to 1814, with his father, sisters and brothers and children, and was followed next year by Gen. John Archer Elmore and family."
"The legislature was exceedingly anxious to see the laws enforced; and, for
that purpose, selected magistrates from among the most respectable and
prominent men throughout the State. They discharged the same duties which
the Judges of the County Courts had done previous to the adoption of the
present Probate system, and as was the practice of Virginia. A few of those
now selected must be mentioned merely to show the determination of our then
infant State, to give tone and dignity to the administration of the laws,
even in inferior courts. For the county of Autauga, for instance, John A.
Elmore, John Armstrong, Robert Gaston, James Jackson and William R. Pickett
were elected magistrates.
General John A. Elmore, one of these justices, was a native of South
Carolina, of the legislature of which State he had often been a respectable
member. Not long after his removal to Alabama, he represented the county of
Autauga in our legislature which then sat at Cahawba. He was a man of
firmness and much good sense, and always delivered his opinions, even in
common conversation, in a distinct and loud voice, with that candor and
honesty which characterized his conduct through life. He had a commanding
appearance, was large in person, and, altogether, an exceedingly fine
looking man. He delighted in the sports of the chase, being a most
successful and spirited hunter, and an agreeable companion in the many camp-
hunts in which he engaged with his neighbors and friends. Towards the close
of his life, we remember that he presented a dignified and venerable
appearance, and we saw him preside as chairman of several large and
exciting meetings in the town of Montgomery during the days of nullifi-
cation."(1)
(1) Albert James Pickett, History of Alabama and Incidentally of Georgia
and Mississippi, from the Earliest Period, (Birmingham Book and Magazine Co.: Birmingham, AL, 1962), pp. 662-663.
Biography of John Archer Elmore - Autauga/Elmore Co.'s, ALSorry, I don't have the war records, which probably tell all about the battles in which Gen. Elmore took part. That will have to be for other historians to research.
John Archer Elmore. An officer of the American Revolution, he was born
August 21, 1762, in Prince Edward County, Virginia, and died April 24, 1834,
in Autauga, now Elmore County. He was the son of Archelas and Susannah
(Morris) Elmore, the former a Quaker. He was a grandson of Thomas and Cicely
(Ellison) Elmore, of New Kent County, Virginia. General Elmore entered the
Continental Army while still a youth, and served under General Greene.
General Elmore settled in Laurens District, South Carolina, after the
Revolution, resided there for many years and served in the legislature. In
1819 he removed to Alabama, settling in Autauga County, and in 1821,
represented the County in the legislature. When Autauga County was
subdivided the new county was named in his honor. The station of that name
being also named for his family.
General Elmore was married to (1) Mary Ann Sarah Saxon, on March 1,
1788. He married (2) on March 14, 1805, to Mary Martin, a descendant of the
noted Martin family of South Carolina, also of the Marshall family of
Virginia, and of Lieutenant Nathaniel Terry, of Virginia.
Children by his first wife were: l. Benjamin F., treasurer of South
Carolina, married Sarah Aurora Brevard. 2. Narcissa. 3. Sophia Saxon,
married George Ross. 4. Charlotte Perry, married Abner Crenshaw. 5. Franklin
Harper, who succeeded Calhoun in the U. S. Senate, married Harriet Chestnut.
By his second wife, General Elmore was the father of: 6. Elizabeth S.,
married Dixon H. Lewis. 7. Sarah Terry, married Benjamin Fitzpatrick.
8. John Archer, married Laura Maria Martin. 9. Morris Martin. 10. William
Augustus, married (1) Mary Ann Morrison, (2) Julia Minor. 11. Luther Alfred.
12. Henry Marshall, married Elizabeth Harris. 13. Laurence Ludlow. 14.
Physick Rush, married Susan T. Nesbitt. 15. Winfield Scott. 16. Infant. 17.
James Scott. 18. Albert Standhope, married Mary Jane Taylor. 19. Ann
Harriet, married Joseph T. Hearn.
[Source: Dictionary of Alabama Biography, Volume III, page 558]
![]() |
Kate Adison was teething when her parents were cheering her older sister on at a swim meet in Atlanta GA. My son and his wife were happy to introduce her to me, but I didn't have any grandmotherly tricks that would help the unhappy little one who was a bit unhappy that day.
And here Kate is 18 years later (last week) graduating from high school in Columbus OH!! The huge ring is from the Ohio state championship in Lacrosse. She is the youngest of my son's three daughters, and also the youngest of my 6 grandchildren.
Sepia Saturday is asking for a family photo, which I already gave you at the beginning, but there are more!
How many mothers might you know about in your ancestry?
I had a few dead ends, because there were often few documents of just whoever Joe Smith married named unfortunately Mary or Susan. These women raised a family, and cared for at least one of my direct ancestors. But their own mothers remained a mystery.
So I'm getting out my trusty Ancestry app, where I think I've got about 8000 people on my main tree (yes I've got a few off shoots also, which add about 3000 more potential relatives.)
My main tree has almost 4000 photos as well.
Let's just find some sepia mothers to share today.
1. Ada Phillips Swasey Rogers (my father's mother) (1886-1964)
2. Ada's mother, Zulieka Granger Phillips Swasey (Dear Nan) (1858-1935)
Dear Nan with her granddaughter, Ada Mary Rogers
3.Dear Nan/Zulieka's mother, Mary Hull Granger Phillips, (1829-1861)
A woman's portrait, unknown, but showing hair style and clothes worn in the 1820s.
The following are my transcriptions from copies of original letters that were written by Mary Granger Phillips:
(No notation of date or place; MaryPhillips.001 and 002)
There is plenty of Game in the woods but William has had little time for hunting now. Does are rather scarse. (sic) The Black tong(?? Two letters added above word, unclear) killed a great many off last year they say.
I have not got my Piano yet – waiting for a draft on P.O. as I think I can be better suited by sending there for it.
I must remind you will wirte me as I am anxious to hear how you are this cold Winter. I almost feel as if I had got back to the North. Do you remember of ever experiencing such cold weather any Winter before?
Lizzie writes me Mother has suffered a great deal with the Asthma, It is impossible for her to endure the cold.
===(on back page)
I receive the Harpers and regret I did not take the Ladys also (perhaps publications?) I find many people even away up here (Monde?) who know you and ask with no little interst after you.
The river is rising very fast today and we are listening for a Seamboat every moment. There are some seven or eight flat-boats on their way down with Cotton. Hoping to hear from you soon, I close,
Yours affectionately,
Mary H. Phillips
------
(note by author: Lizzie is her sister, Elizabeth Granger, and Mother is probably Mary Granger. The piano arrived, according to a letter posted on_ June 10th, 1860)
(no heading, written to her Mother-in-law, Mary Gainer, see MaryPhillips.002)
The children are quite well. Zulie often talks of you all. She is growing very fast and talks us nearly crazy. Is very curious must know and understand every thing she hears and sees. She is pretty, bad and smart and I am I regret to say entirely unable to control her never having seen ever such a temper. I often wonder how Lizzie would manage her, although Zulie has been much spoiled (--?--) everyone, she is very affectionate, child loves me dearly but does not want to mind. Ada is different more mild the sweetest and caring little thing will let you kiss her all day and not get mad. Pa Gainer says Zulie is the worst child he ever saw and Ada the best now if they do not spoil her. She began to walk a little past nine months it is so cunning to see her walking her hair curls and she goes round
(on back page)
jabbering to herself you all would eat her up. I have not had a pair of shoes to fit her since those you sent and they are all worn out. I have let her go barefooted this Summer on account of not being able to get any for her. I do hope some goods will come to Town Bluff. Zulie too wears anything for shoes. I am very much troubled about getting everything. There are no goods any near us. I expect we shall see sights to get things to wear this Winter. I think you will find a letter of winds if nothing else. I will try to write often as I can. I have on hand a monstrous pile of sewing though, but will answer all who write. All desire Love keep a cheerful heart dear Mother. I think of you much and often.
Your affectionate Daughter,
Mary
(Author’s notes: Pa Gainer (William Phillips step-father) is in Texas, or has been to have seen both granddaughters. His words are being relayed either to his wife, Mother Gainer, or Mary's mother, Mary Granger, by Mary. The time may be after Confederate blockade has made goods hard to obtain. Ada had been born Sept 15, 1860, so would be 9 mos old by June of 1861) But the blockade wasn’t really holding manufactured goods back entirely. Perhaps goods just weren’t being shipped at this time, except for war needs.)
4. Mary's mother, Lucy Elizabeth Parsons Pulsifer, (1807-1876) (I have yet to find out who/why the Parsons name is included for her.) See below about her earlier sister and brothers. Incidentally, she apparently died in Galveston TX in 1876 (according to a news record and a probate in 1877 in Massachusetts). Yet she, as Lucia, and an unmarried daughter, Elizabeth Granger appear on the 1880 census in Southwick, Hampton, Massachusetts. That is another one I haven't figured out yet. Her real daughter Elizabeth married and had 3 children, and continued living in Galveston. Who was this other Elizabeth and mother Lucia?
Incidentally, her brother, Joseph Perkins Pulsifer was one of the founders of Beaumont TX. Here's a bit of information about him:
PULSIFER, JOSEPH PERKINS (1805–1861). Joseph P. Pulsifer, early Texas apothecary and a founder of Beaumont, the son of Ebenezer and Elizabeth (Dwelbee) Pulsifer, was born in Newburyport, Massachusetts, on July 8, 1805. Little is known about Pulsifer's education, except that his letters show him to have been an extremely literate man. Probably through apprenticeship, he became an apothecary, and sometime after 1827 he opened a drugstore in partnership with his brother Eben in nearby Charlestown, now a suburb of Boston. There Pulsifer became a member of the Mechanics' Society and served as its secretary in 1831. Sometime during 1832 or 1833 he returned to Newburyport to work in the drug firm of Thomas Davis and Company. In the fall of 1833 Pulsifer moved to New Orleans in search of economic opportunity and found employment in the store of druggist and retail merchant Henry W. Millard . By 1835, however, the firm developed financial troubles. Pulsifer and Millard then entered into a partnership, J. P. Pulsifer and Company, with Texas merchant Thomas B. Huling . The men moved to Texas in July of that year. In a small settlement named Santa Anna, on the Neches River, they opened a store under Pulsifer's management. In the fall of 1835 the firm purchased fifty acres on the Neches River and laid out the boundaries of a new town, which they called Beaumont.
From Beaumont, Pulsifer took an active, if nonmilitary, part in the Texas Revolution . Citizens of the Neches River Settlement, as that area was called, appointed him chairman of the Committee of Correspondence, secretary of the Committee of Safety, and a member of a local committee to draft ideas for a constitution and bylaws for Texas. He also served as Beaumont's first postmaster and as a trustee of the first school. After the revolution Pulsifer, Huling, and Millard added fifty acres to the original Beaumont townsite. By entering into partnership with Nancy Tevis and Joseph Grigsby , each of whom donated an additional fifty acres, they increased the original area of the town to a total of 200 acres. Beaumont ultimately incorporated both Santa Anna and Tevis Bluff, an older settlement about a mile upriver from Santa Anna. Pulsifer, who never married, remained a citizen of Beaumont for the rest of his life. In addition to practicing his professions of storekeeper and apothecary, he served in various public offices: collector of revenue for the port of Sabine, county clerk, county commissioner, and clerk of the Jefferson County Board of Land Commissioners. Before the first Jefferson County Courthouse was built in 1854, the county commissioners periodically held court on the second floor of his combination home and store in Beaumont. He also served as an agent in Jefferson County for the Austin State Gazette . Pulsifer died in Beaumont in 1861. The one extant volume of his correspondence remains unpublished. It covers the period from 1833 to 1836 and describes his immigration to Texas and his ordeal during the Texas Revolution.
BIBLIOGRAPHY:
Judith Walker Linsley and Ellen Walker Rienstra, Beaumont: A Chronicle of Promise (Woodland Hills, California: Windsor, 1982).
Source: Texas History Online
5. Lucy's mother, Elizabeeth (Betsy) Dwelle Pulsifer (and similar spellings)(1762 or 72 - 1824) Betsy had her first three children die quite young. So they named later children the same names. Joseph the first died at 9 months in 1798. Elizabeth had her death noted as May 28, 1800, but no birth record. And Ebeneezer the first just lived from July 1801 to April 20, 1806.
6. Betsy's mother, Elizabeth Browne Dwelly (or similar spellings) (1737 or 1740 - abt.1768)
7. Elizabeth's mother, Abigail Goodenow Browne, (1716-1803)
8. Abigail's mother, Prudence Morrison Goodenow/Goodnew, (1691-1720)
And we know no further along that maternal line... though there were mothers of each of the fathers which would mean about a hundred or so more mothers just from my one grandmother's line!
Prudence was my seven times great grandmother.
Sharing with Sepia Saturday where I'm completely off the meme this week. But we'll get by, and share my Mother's Day eve post with my sepia friends!
Today's Quote:
Maya AngelouRemembering ancestors:
"Benedict Pulsipher had settled in Ipswich, Massachusetts, according to his own statement, by 1659. He was probably married a year or two before coming to this country. He very likely brought his wife and infant son, Benedict II or Junior. We have no record of the birth of the son (Benedict II) or of another son, John, but (daughter) Elizabeth’s birth in 1669 is recorded in the town records of Ipswich. His first wife, of whose maiden name we are ignorant, died at Ipswich 16 July 1673. His son, Mr. William Henry Pulsipher says, "We’re of little help or comfort to his family." Evidently John moved to Gloucester, where he became a respected member of the family. There he probably supplemented his income as a farmer by occasionally building or helping to build houses for his neighbors. He is styled in one document "Yeoman" and in another "mason". In the History of Gloucester", J. J. Babson – 1860, page 130, appears the following:
According to tradition near a spot still occupied by one if his descendants on the old road leading to Coffin’s Beach (Gloucester). In 1688 he had a piece of land "given to the house where he then lived." Benedict Jr., proved to be a "roving blade", according to Mr. William Henry Pulsipher. "We hear," says Mr. Pulsipher, "of a Benedict Pulsipher engaged in an Indian fight in Maine in 1688. This was probably Benedict Jr. Cotton Mather refers to the incident in his ‘Magnalia Christi Americana’ London 1702. VII, page 63. Benedict, Jr., probably never married. In 1690 he engaged in Sir William Philip’s expedition to Quebec as a member of Captain Abraham Titton’s Company, and it is quite possible that he was killed or taken prisoner in the unfortunate attempt to capture the Canadian stronghold.
"A Compendious History of New England" by Morse and Parrish, page 146, makes a confirmatory reference to this episode.
After the death of his first wife on 16 July 1673, Benedict, Sr. married in the succeeding February, Susan A. Waters of Salem, Massachusetts, who was the fifth daughter of Richard and Joyce Waters. She was born at Salem, Massachusetts 01 Feb 1649. "Benedict Pulsipher, Sr. brought his young wife to Ipswich immediately after his marriage and entered upon what might be termed the second period of his career." The records show that his young wife was rather vain. She liked to adorn herself. "She, among others, braved the laws in 1675 by appearing in the meeting house with a silk hood and scarf. She and the others were arrested, tried, and fined ten shillings each for yielding to their vanity."
Benedict Pulsipher was a man of some means. He was also "a man of considerable education" in a period when educated Englishmen were rare.
Late in 1663 or early 1664 he bought a dwelling house with outhouse, orchard, gardens, etc. of Moses Pingry of Ipswich, Massachusetts, which property Pingry had acquired in 1652 of Richard Scofield who came to New England in 1635. This estate was situated on the north of the "Tom River". Its site is now occupied by a factory. The original deed to this property was either lost or "casually" burned, and on 7 Feb 1667, Pingry made a supplementary deed of the property which he gave Benedict Pulsipher. Benedict was then styled a "planter."
He added to his estate in 1664. In the same year, 1664, the town of Ipswich granted him a share (No. 55) in the town lands on Plumb Island, Castle Neck, and Hogg Island. He continued to reside at Ipswich, pursuing his occupation as planter or farmer for many years.
SOURCe:Ancestry and descendants of Jonathan Pulsifer and his wife, Nancy Ryerson Pulsifer of Maine
Line of descent from Benedict 1 Pulsifer to Jonathan 6 Pulsifer